Hey there! It’s Kate and Caroline, your favorite micro wedding besties from You're Invited. 🎉 We’re here to spill the tea on everything micro weddings and help you figure out if a cozy, intimate celebration is your perfect match. Spoiler alert: if you're reading this, it probably is! 😉

1. You Love an Intimate Vibe

Do you find yourself cringing at the thought of a massive guest list and the pressure of greeting a sea of acquaintances? If so, you might be our kind of bride! We totally get it—nothing beats a celebration with just your closest family and friends, where everyone feels like they're part of the magic. Plus, with fewer guests, you get to truly connect and share meaningful moments with everyone there.

Kate’s Tip: Keep it small and sweet. An intimate guest list means more quality time with the people who matter most, and who doesn’t love that? You can even opt for a cozy family-style dinner, making everyone feel like they’re at a big, happy gathering.

Morgan Hicks Photography | Vendetta Coffee Bar

2. Personalization Is Your Jam

You’re the type who wants every little detail to scream “you.” From customized cocktails named after your favorite adventures to unique playlists that tell your love story, you’re all about making your wedding uniquely yours. At You're Invited, we’re passionate about helping you infuse every part of your day with your personal style and story.

Caroline’s Advice: Think about what makes your love story special and weave those elements into your day. It’s those personal details that your guests will remember forever. Whether it’s incorporating family heirlooms or including your pets in the ceremony, make it all about what makes you two, you.

My Wedding Dreamers | Castello del Trebbio - Tuscany, Italy

3. Cozy, Not Corporate

Big hotel ballrooms and grand entrances? Not your style. You’re more into charming vineyards, quaint little chapels, or maybe even a cozy backyard. You want a warm, relaxed atmosphere where everyone feels at home, and where the setting itself tells a story. Imagine saying your vows under a canopy of grapevines or in a picturesque garden.

Kate’s Tip: Choose a venue that feels like an extension of your personality. The more it feels like “you,” the more magical your day will be. Plus, unique venues often offer more flexibility in terms of decor and layout, allowing you to craft an experience that’s one-of-a-kind.

Morgan Hicks Photography | Iron Horse Hotel

4. Finer Things Without the Big Spend

We’re all about enjoying the finer things in life without blowing the budget. With a micro wedding, you can splurge on those special elements like a gourmet meal or a designer dress without the hefty price tag of a big wedding. It’s about quality over quantity—why not have a Michelin-star chef create your dinner or serve an exquisite wine selection?

Caroline’s Advice: With fewer guests, you can allocate more of your budget to the things you love most. Whether it’s amazing food, stunning decor, or an epic honeymoon, you can have it all! Think of it as investing in the experiences and details that truly matter to you, creating lasting memories.

5. Stress? What’s That?

Let’s be real—planning a big wedding can be super stressful. But with a micro wedding, it’s all about keeping things simple and stress-free. We love helping our brides enjoy the planning process just as much as the big day itself. Less chaos means more room for joy and spontaneity, and you can really savor every moment.

Kate’s Tip: Work with a planner (like us!) who specializes in micro weddings. We’ll help you keep things organized and relaxed so you can focus on the fun stuff! From handling logistics to styling, we make sure everything runs smoothly, so you can be present and enjoy your special day.

Bonus: Breaking the Rules

If you’re the type who loves doing things a little differently, a micro wedding is perfect for you. Want to walk down the aisle together? Go for it! Feel like having a brunch wedding with mimosas and waffles? Yes, please! With a micro wedding, you have the freedom to ditch the traditional playbook and do things your way.

Caroline’s Advice: Don’t be afraid to break traditions and make your own rules. It’s your day, and it should be as unique and special as your love story. Whether it’s skipping the bouquet toss or having a casual, laid-back dress code, make choices that feel authentic to you and your partner.

Arcanum Lenz Photography | Iron Horse Hotel | Marmalade & Co

So, Are You a Micro Wedding Bride?

If you’re vibing with these points, then welcome to the micro wedding club! 🎉 We’re all about creating beautiful, intimate celebrations that are full of love and personal touches. Whether you’re dreaming of a romantic Italian vineyard or a charming Wisconsin venue, we’re here to make your micro wedding dreams come true.

Ready to start planning? Let’s do this! We can’t wait to help you create a day that’s as amazing as your love story. Cheers to micro weddings and making unforgettable memories! 🥂

With love, Kate & Caroline at You're Invited

How to Know if You’re a Micro Wedding Bride: Tips from Kate and Caroline, Your Micro Wedding Besties!