Navigating Micro Wedding Etiquette: Tips for Crafting the Perfect Guest List and Invitations
Co-owner Caroline’s 14 Person Micro Wedding | Morgan Hicks Photography
Alright, let's dive back into the wonderful world of micro wedding etiquette and tackle the ever-important topic of guest lists and invitations. Planning a micro wedding means you get to be more intentional and strategic about who you invite, so let's break it down with some more tips to help you navigate this process smoothly.
Co-owner Kate’s 35 person Micro Wedding | Beba Vowels Photography
1. Start with immediate family and closest friends: Your guest list should prioritize those who mean the most to you. Start by listing out your immediate family members and closest friends - these are the people who have been by your side through thick and thin and who you want to share this special day with.
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2. Consider the venue: Since micro weddings usually take place in smaller, more intimate settings, make sure to take the venue capacity into account when finalizing your guest list. You want to ensure that all your guests will have enough space to be comfortable and enjoy the celebration.
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3. Think about relationships: When deciding who to invite, consider the dynamics of your relationships. You may want to invite only those who will truly celebrate and uplift you on your big day. Avoid inviting guests who may bring negativity or drama to the event.
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4. Include special people: In addition to immediate family and close friends, consider including any special people in your life who have had a significant impact on you as a couple. This could be a mentor, a favorite teacher, or even a beloved family pet (yes, pets at weddings are a thing!).
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5. Be mindful of your budget: With a smaller guest list, you may have more flexibility with your budget, but it's still important to keep costs in mind when finalizing your guest list. Be realistic about what you can afford and be prepared to make some tough decisions if necessary.
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6. Handle guest list changes with grace: As you finalize your guest list and send out invitations, be prepared for the possibility of last-minute changes. Whether it's unexpected declines or new additions, stay flexible and handle any adjustments with grace and understanding.
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7. Set clear RSVP expectations: Since you're working with a smaller guest list, it's crucial to get an accurate headcount for your micro wedding. Clearly communicate the RSVP deadline and provide multiple ways for guests to respond (online, by phone, etc.) to make it as easy as possible for them to let you know their attendance plans.
Remember, your micro wedding is about celebrating your love and commitment in a way that feels meaningful and authentic to you. By following these etiquette tips and approaching your guest list with thoughtfulness and care, you can create a truly unforgettable and intimate wedding experience for you and your loved ones. Happy planning!